Tuesday, May 15, 2012

FAKTOR SIKAP POSITIF VS SIKAP NEGATIF





THINK AND GROW RICH


FAKTOR ATAU SIKAP POSITIF

1.  Membina personaliti menarik
2.  Sedia bekerja lebih.
3.  Membina sikap mental yang positif.
4.  Mengawal keghairahan diri.
5.  Mengukuhkan disiplin diri.
6.  Berfikir dengan tepat.
7.  Mengekalkan kesihatan yang baik.
8.  Merancang masa dan wang anda
9.  MESTI tabah, orang yang tabah tidak akan gagal.

FAKTOR ATAU SIKAP NEGATIF

1.  Tabiat hidup yang terumbang-ambing tanpa tujuan yang pasti.
2.  Suka jaga tepi kain orang.
3.  Kurang pendidikan.
4.  Pengaruh zaman kanak-kanak yang tidak baik.
5.  Mulut yang tajam.
6.  Tidak setia.
7.  Sikap mental yang negatif.
8. Memilih pasangan hidup yang tidak sesuai.
9.  Egotisme dan megah diri dan tidak sanggup bekerja lebih.
10 Kurang wawasan dan imaginasi.

Kebaikan itu bagaikan penyakit, ia berjangkit, jika kamu orang yang baik dan positif thinker, lihatlah bahawa orang-orang yang tertarik kepada kamu ADALAH orang-orang yang mempunyai aura seperti kamu juga.

 Begitu juga jika kamu orang yang tidak baik dan negatif sangat-sangat mentalitinya.  Perhatikan kawan-kawanmu. Sebenarnya bukan orang-orang tersebut yang tidak baik atau sangatlah negatif pemikiran mereka, mereka tidak salah, yang bersalah kamu sendiri,  Kamu yang menarik mereka kepada diri kamu.  So, dearest, berubahlah, semoga dengan perubahan tersebut kita menjadi lebih baik dari semalam, lebih berjaya dan lebih berkat hidup kita.



This is a little cup cake for a thought....enjoyyyyyyyy

It is still fresh in my mind  eventhough that happened about 40 years ago.   I came from a kampung named Mela in the province of Jerantut.  We have Sungai Jelai and at that time my house are quite far from the river.   I loved rivers,  just to look at the water running down to the open arms of her loving mother, Sungai Pahang were such a beautiful sight for me and i remembered poem 'River' forgotten though written by whom  which i studied for my STPM which is gloriously long long time ago.  But i still remember the poem.  A very beautiful meaningful one. Once, sweet memories of a little girl. A kampung girl that it so innocence and naif.  She don't care about anything around her except herself, she don't even have a close friend because her best friend's herself and her books and her hobby - fishing.  So young (about 9 yrs' old) yet so sure and confidence of herself.  She doesn't afraid of anything except One.

One fine afternoon she decided to go for a fishing trip at the back of her house.   After walking for about thirty minutes, she came upon a small pond.   It is a powerful beautiful sight,  the water is crystal clear, the wind blowing softly touching her rosy cheek, the wild grass dancing softly following the  wind shadowed on the surface of the water, the cloud above painted a beautiful pictures on the surface of the water and she counted that there are about 5 itik belibis (wild ducks) swimming  and playing in the pond.   What a beautiful ducks, she thought, and that her first ever close encounter with the wild ducks.  They are quite big thrice the size of the ordinary duck, with a beautiful  colours on their bodies,  then she noticed something about the ducks.   They have a beautiful eyes, just like a girl's eyes with long lashes.  They look at her and does not afraid of her at all.  They go on swimming and playing in the water.  She was so fascinated with the scenery that she rooted to the ground.  Then out of sudden she can hear a voice inside of her head,  a very soft  motherly voice saying to her in her head..".enough for today, can you go home now..."

Suddenly, she felt frightened and she shivering all over with a goose bump on her legs and arms.  And then she ran home as fast as her leg can carry her.  Leaving her fishing rod and everything behind.  When she reached her house her mother greeted her, laughingly..

"Why, the fairy queen (a kind of jinny) chasing you again, are you.  You must go to that pond again. You are too brave to stay away from that place aren't you?."

"Well mak, i have the strangest encountered this afternoon....." and on and on she's telling her mother of her experienced at the pond.  Her mother keep quiet and let her finish her story.

The her mother spoke :

"Promised me you won't go to that place again sayang.  It's not a a playground for us.  It's a playground for them,  People encountered strangest things over there.  You are very lucky because what you saw were not their trueself.  If they decided to show you their true form or self, i can't imagined what will happen to you.  Sayang, for your information, there are no wild ducks over there ever.  If you still remember their eyes,  they are difference from the ordinary ducks because they have a long lashes and naturally the real duck don't have   That's the clue. That's why people know that they are not the real ducks"

"Remember last year, that you caught a cat fish that have a beautiful eyes, long eyes lashes and blinking or winking at you.  That the same thing.  The real fish don't have those."

I remembered the year before, i went fishing, as usual alone at an old abandoned paddy field. I caught a cat fish, a very beautiful cat fish with a beautiful eyes with long lashes.  The fish looked at me blinking it's eyes and sometimes winking at me, i felt weird though, so i  put it back into the water.  Since that day till now  i dare not eat cat fish.  If friends ask me why i am not taking cat fish, i told them about the fish that winking at me...........


The moral of the story:

Don't be afraid, don't complicate your life,  be sincere


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